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How to Celebrate Holidays and Social Events Without Losing Progress

Holidays, birthdays, weddings… social events can feel like a minefield when you’re trying to stay on track with your health.

I’ve been there.

Standing in front of a buffet, watching everyone indulge, and thinking,

“How am I supposed to stay on plan without missing out?”

Here’s the thing: you can enjoy life and still make progress.

In fact, you don’t have to sacrifice pizza at your cousin’s party or ice cream at a birthday celebration.

I’ve helped countless clients do this, and I’ve done it myself, and the secret is simple: strategy, not restriction.



Change Your Mindset First

Before you even think about what’s on the table, shift your focus.

Stop asking, “What can’t I have?” and start asking, “How can I enjoy this without sabotaging my goals?”

Let me tell you something I say to clients all the time: eating food you love does not erase progress.

Missing out creates guilt. Guilt creates stress. Stress creates cravings.

And suddenly, you’ve gone from one slice of cake to a whole cake — emotionally.


Protein and Fiber Are Your Secret Weapons

Here’s my go-to trick for social events: fill your plate with protein and fiber first.


  • Protein: chicken, turkey, fish, eggs, or tofu

  • Fiber: veggies, salad, legumes


When your plate is full of these, you’re satisfied faster, your blood sugar stays steady, and those irresistible desserts aren’t controlling your choices.


Smart Swaps Without Feeling Deprived


This is where people get creative — and you don’t have to sacrifice flavor.


  • Pizza? Load it with veggies, thin crust, and lean protein.

  • Ice cream? Smaller scoop, or try a protein-packed frozen yogurt.

  • Drinks? Swap some cocktails for sparkling water or alternate sips with wate


It’s not about cutting out the fun — it’s about making indulgences work for your goals.


Move Your Body, Don’t Punish It


You don’t need to punish yourself in the gym because you’re celebrating. But gentle movement helps:


  • A walk after the meal

  • Playing games or dancing with friends and family

  • Light strength training before or after the event


It keeps your metabolism moving and your stress levels lower — and it’s much more sustainable than over-restricting.


Plan Ahead, Stay Flexible

Some planning goes a long way.

Eat a balanced breakfast, lunch, or snack so you’re not starving when the party starts.

Decide beforehand where you’ll allow indulgences and how you’ll balance them.

Mindful eating — tasting and savoring each bite — goes a long way toward satisfaction without overdoing it


Support Makes a Difference


Social situations can be triggering. Let your people support you:


  • Bring a friend who understands your goals

  • Set polite boundaries if needed

  • Remind yourself: you are allowed to enjoy food AND stay consistent



Holidays and social events are part of life.

The goal isn’t perfection — it’s enjoying the moment while staying consistent.

Focus on protein and fiber first, make smart swaps, move your body a little, plan ahead, and lean on your support system.

Do this, and you can celebrate without guilt, without stress, and without losing progress. That’s the SHREDSKIZ way.

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